Etiquette & Custom


SoYouWanna give a wedding speech?According to oft quoted survey results, most Americans number one fear is...

SoYouWanna prepare your wedding vows?Preparing your wedding vows can be a very stressful time. What if you don't...

SoYouWanna use salt and pepper properly?If someone asks you to pass the salt, do it in the same manner above, but...

SoYouWanna throw a Christmas party?On the evening of my Christmas party, I saw so many things:12 guests a...

SoYouWanna throw a bachelor party?Your best buddy's wedding is just around the corner, and you - as the best...

SoYouWanna serve high tea?We all know the game of choosing the right setting to meet someone to talk....

SoYouWanna plan a bachelorette party?The maid of honor is usually responsible for organizing and throwing the...

SoYouWanna pick out shoes to go with a wedding dress?For the shoes, stick with traditional white silk or satin.2. It is...

SoYouWanna maintain proper posture at a table?Always sit straight up in your chair, never leaning backward, nor forward....

SoYouWanna learn about opera?So your girlfriend or boyfriend is an opera fan. Or you were switching...

SoYouWanna learn about classical music?You definitely need the wisdom of this article if any of these statements...

SoYouWanna know who to invite to a seance?Stick to people who are open-minded. This is a definite MUST - ghosts...

SoYouWanna know who to invite to a bachelor party?While at many parties the general rule may be "the more the merrier," at a...

SoYouWanna know what the maid of honor's responsibilities are during the wedding?As her honorable "maid," you're expected to give the bride your full...

SoYouWanna know what the maid of honor's responsibilities are during the reception?At the start of the reception, you and the other bridal party members...

SoYouWanna know what males should wear to different formal events?Most occasions will fit into a category that is usually indicated on the...

SoYouWanna know what foods you can eat with your fingers?If you're not sure whether or not you can eat something with your fingers,...

SoYouWanna know how to use a knife and fork properly?Assuming you are right-handed, hold the fork in your left hand and knife in...

SoYouWanna know how to properly display that you've finished your meal?How do you end with a good impression (aside from the one you left on the...

SoYouWanna know how to eat soup properly?Don't put the entire spoon in your mouth. Instead, fill a soup spoon about...

SoYouWanna improve your table manners?Americans have notoriously poor table manners. We slurp our soup, chomp our...

SoYouWanna host a wedding shower?You've just found out one of your friends is getting hitched. After the...

SoYouWanna help a bride pick the bridesmaids' dresses?If the bride seeks your advice in deciding how to dress the wedding...

SoYouWanna fake an appreciation for art?Some say that art is man's loftiest endeavor -- a mortal attempt to be like...

SoYouWanna decide who to invite to a wedding shower?This is a party for the bride, so you'll likely be inviting some people you...

SoYouWanna choose jewelry to go with a wedding dress?Jewelry should be subdued. Stud-earrings like diamonds or pearls are common...

SoYouWanna choose a theme for a bachelorette party?Consider a male strip club. Strip clubs may seem like an obvious choice,...

SoYouWanna buy an engagement ring?OK, OK, everything is perfect. The lights are nicely dimmed in the lovely...

SoYouWanna buy a wedding gown?Romeo finally popped the question and put the ring on your finger....

SoYouWanna booka stripper for a bachelor party?While it sounds like fun to round up a bunch of strippers and have them...

SoYouWanna be a maid of honor?You'll hold her flowers, you'll straighten her veil, you'll cater to her...