5. SEND OUT THE INVITATIONS
How do I write an invitation?
The basic elements of the wedding shower invitation are:
- What kind of shower (wedding)
- For Whom (bride-to-be or couple)
- When
- Where
- Who's hosting
- How to RSVP
You should also include your theme (if there is one) and where the bride is registered. A registry means the bride and groom have pre-visited a store or stores and pre-picked the gifts they hope to receive. This helps the guests purchase something the couple likes or that fits in with their decor. Now, it's up to you to make the invitations look pretty -- just remember to include all the information we mentioned, so no invitee gets confused.
Sending the puppies out
You should plan on sending out your invitations (or inviting people by phone, although this is not nearly as cool) at least four weeks in advance. Four weeks gives guests some advance warning, allows enough time for them to RSVP and gives YOU a reasonable amount of time to get your act together. Unless you're planning an informal open house -- and that's dangerous because you might run out of food or drinks -- ask for RSVPs, and follow up with each guest you haven't heard from by phone so you know who's coming and how many people you'll have to feed.
